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And Save Her Years Of Pain And Suffering.
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"Abby Rohrer is an inspiring example of what is possible for you and
your child. She offers a powerful message of hope and healing for both
parents and teens. This book is a must-read for parents and hair
There's a tragic secret being kept in families,
schools, churches and communities all over the
world. And yet it's a secret that you probably
know very well.
This secret keeps millions of children and teens
hiding in shame and isolation, desperately seeking
a solution but not knowing where to turn and
feeling too humiliated to seek help. Your child
may be one of them.
The saddest part is that these children are
hiding most from the very people who love them;
their parents, their brothers and sisters and
even their best friends. This is the heartbreak
of living life as a compulsive hair puller.
I personally held this same shameful secret
for over 27 years. As a teen, I kept it from
my parents, my siblings, my friends, my relatives
and my teachers. In my twenties, I kept it from
my boyfriends and my best friends, and in my
thirties from my in-laws, my co-workers and even
my own daughter. I cannot begin to express to
you the agony of living a life filled with this
much shame and hiding.
Abby Leora Rohrer Former Hair Puller, Trichotillomania Educational Consultant
Here's my VERY personal story.
I know your child's
because it used to be my struggle…
began pulling my hair out for real the summer
after seventh grade.
I had ended the school year with
wavy dark-brown shoulder length hair but entered
terribly self-conscious because of my strange
new look…mid-ear-length hair, parted way
over to the side. Here is my trichotillomania picture that was in the yearbook later that year.
At the start of seventh grade
I hijacked my mother's magnifying mirror and
tweezers and began to pluck
my eyebrows silly trying to get just "the
right look." My eyebrows became thinner
and thinner…verging on non-existent.
That summer I "graduated" to
pulling from my scalp. One day, while sitting
in my hot
pink and sunshine yellow, psychedelic-flowered
bedroom, I noticed a single hair hanging in my
eyes. On impulse, I reached up and pulled.
Zing! I was hooked. I began
to pull compulsively . . . totally unable to
My older sister, Judy, caught
me and ratted me out to my mother. Mom, whose
focus was elsewhere,
declared it was a stage I'd outgrow. She was
That was the only mention ever
made about my hair pulling. From then on, I slid
shame, hiding and a life of hair pulling.
The more I did it, the more I
wanted to do it and the more I liked the feeling
it gave me.
And the more embarrassed and ashamed I became.
Non-pullers just can't understand
how pulling doesn't cause physical pain to a hair puller. They
how good it can feel. They certainly can't understand
how horrible it feels to look in the mirror and
see the damage you've done to yourself...or just how that raises your anxiety level and
forces you to think, "I must be crazy because
no sane person would ever do this!" And
how that begins the vicious cycle all over again.
My hair pulling went on for nearly
thirty years. During good periods I wouldn't
pull for a couple
of months; but suddenly the uncontrollable urge
would return with a vengeance. At its worst,
I would spend hours a day for months and years
on end, pulling to find just the right hair with
just the right texture attached to just the perfect
bulb -- crunching it between my teeth to find
my need only just beginning. And on to another
pull. And another. And another. I was losing
my life because of hair pulling!
From the day I began pulling,
I dreamed of stopping.
Early on, I hoped and prayed that
my parents would realize it wasn't just a stage,
me to find a way to stop my hair pulling. In
fact, I wrote a letter to them over and over
again in my heart and in my mind – a letter
that I never put on paper, or had the courage
to share with anyone until now.
I tried so many different things
to stop pulling: sitting on my hands, wearing
gloves to bed, more than 14 years and many different
types of therapy, behavior modification, homeopathy,
chiropractic, and a bunch of natural and New
Age techniques. I read self-help by the score – tried
most everything but medication.
None of it worked.
I was pulling more. I was unhappier
than ever before. I finally got disgusted with
The answers weren't out there.
"I have taken her to doctors,
psychologists, psychiatrists, counselors,
and massage therapists."
"We have tried hypnotism,
biofeedback, behavior therapy, counseling,
and medication. All they did was made her
angry and physically ill.
"My daughter is one of the most wonderful
things that God ever blessed me with in this
life. Yet my blessing breaks my heart on
a daily basis. Why? Because she pulls her
hair out and everything I have done to help
her gain control of this terrible compulsion
"So now we
do nothing but wait. What do I wait for?
I wait for her to decide that she wants help
in controlling this problem. I wait for her
to say she will do anything to bring this
problem under her control. I wait for someone
to tell me there is an answer and a reason
for this problem. I know that my wanting
her to have control of this problem means
nothing unless she wants it too. She says
I just don’t understand that she can’t
stop. I guess she is right."
--Sandra, mom of 12-year old hair-pulling daughter
parents never understand and really want to
help but I still feel the burn of their judgmental
"I'm a senior in high school and
just getting ready to apply to college. I've
been living with Trich since I was extremely
young, only up until recently I didn't know
what it was called or what it was. I thought
I was the only one who was just a demented
and weird kid with a horrible problem. I
called it my "habit" and dreaded
sleepovers and any time when my makeup would
come off to reveal my horrible missing hairs.
Every morning I run to my bathroom with my
hair in front of my face. I have hard time
looking into people’s eyes and trusting
them. I've been in therapy for years but
nothing really ever helps."
-- Jennifer, 17-year old hair puller
I stopped looking for outside answers and discovered
the key to ending my hair pulling a few months
May 8, 1994, I Found My Freedom …
May 8, 1994 was the day I finally learned how
to stop pulling my hair out. I was 39 years old
and had been hair pulling from the age of 12.
Since that amazing day, I haven't pulled once,
and have easily managed any urge that has arisen.
I’ve spent these last thirteen years researching,
writing and teaching others how permanent self-healing
Since that May, NOT pulling has been effortless,
and my life has improved in so many fantastic
ways. These changes came, not simply from stopping
the hair pulling, but because of how I did it.
Back then, my young daughter also struggled
with a different, but even more frightening,
compulsive behavior. I was at my wits’ end
to help her but everything I tried just seemed
to make the situation worse.
This went on until a year after healing my hair
pulling, when, by applying what I had learned
from my own experience, I was able to help my
daughter fully end her own compulsive behavior.
(You can read all about this in Chapter 5: Real
Stories, beginning on page 125.)
I know all sides of your situation. I know what
it's like to be the hair puller and what it's
like to be the parent of a child sunk deeply
into a compulsion. I know the agony of it all.
Know How You Ache to Help Your Child.
I Can Show You Exactly How You Can.
For the thirteen years since ending my own pulling,
I've watched how trichotillomania is reported
within the community, by sufferers, parents,
and medical authorities. The picture is bleak.
It’s obvious that people do care and want
to help. But they simply lack the knowledge to
do so. They believe that hair pullers are victims
of an illness who must wait for modern science
to save them.
The available support groups also lack the crucial
information that hair pullers need in order to
get free. The same stories of pain and struggle
are told over and over again for years
on end. This is terribly demoralizing for you
and your child! Aren't you tired of it?
Throughout these same years, the drug companies
have pressured us to view everything as illness.
Just watch 10 minutes of TV and be battered by
drug commercials. Everything has become a "disease" and
everything needs a "drug" to cure it.
It seems there's nothing we can do to help ourselves.
Hearing that it's not your fault and there's
nothing you can do about your child’s hair
pulling may initially have been a great relief.
You were able to let go of your fears and guilt.
Yet over time, even that has lost some of its
You’re watching the bald spots, eyebrows
or eyelashes come and go. You see your child
struggle and suffer. There are so many highs
- maybe this time she's got it under control
for good! And lows - oh my God, she's got 3
new bald patches this morning. You've been waiting
for medical science to come up with a "cure" for
your baby for too long now.
Wouldn't you rather have a new conversation
about hope and healing rather than illness and
Parents, I want to show YOU
how to help your child, starting today!
The only way I can do that is to tell you my
truth. I learned this through an intense journey
of facing my own deep reality about what caused
me to pull for 27 years and by helping other
hair pullers face theirs.
Are you ready to find some real answers and
an effective solution? Are you finally ready
to face facts? The answer truly is in your
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I read recently that up to 10 percent of all
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Forward: Dr. Mary Zesiewicz,
a leading holistic psychiatrist Introduction: A Letter From Abby Leora Rohrer Chapter 1: A Peek Into Your Child's Future Chapter 2: The Discovery Process Chapter 3: Through the Eyes of a Child Chapter 4: Your Child's Reality Chapter 5: The Hair Pulling Environment Chapter 6: The Nuts & Bolts of Hair Pulling Chapter 7: Cracking the Hair Pulling Code Chapter 8: The Effects of Anger and Control Chapter 9: Real Stories Chapter 10: Facing the Evidence Chapter 11: How Can I Best Help My Child? Chapter 12: Parents, Take Action! Chapter 13: When You Get Stuck Chapter 14: Health, Social & Cosmetic Concerns
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Abby Rohrer is an educational consultant and
is not a therapist, psychologist, physician or
cosmetologist. If you are suffering or have been
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If you are a compulsive hair puller who ingests
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